Friday, August 26, 2011

100 Read & Sing Devotions

If you are looking for a devotional book to use with your small children, this could be what you've been looking for.  100 Read & Sing Devotions, created by Stephen Elkins, is filled with colorful child friendly illustrations and daily devotions which include a short scripture verse that you and your child can memorize, a prayer, and a brief devotional narrative.  Each devotion is accompanied by a classic children's song which is included on the two CDs which come with the book and reinforces the Biblical truth of the day's devotional.  The songs, performed by children,  are easy to learn and will hide God's word in your child's heart.  Your child will learn about creation, worship trusting God, Jesus' life and ministry, and more. 

Nothing is more special than sharing your faith with your child.  However, reading stories straight from your own Bible for them might be a bit frustrating for young ones to understand.  The languuage used in this devotional is simple to understand yet does not compromise God's word. No devotion exceeds  two pages in length, including the illustration, prayer, and scripture, so your little one doesn't lose interest.  Use this book as a springboard for further discussion as you tell your child stories about how God has been real to you.  "100 Devotions is an important way to establish a lifetime relationship with God."  I would recommend this book for ages 3 - 8.  It would also make a wonderful gift.

I did receive a complimentary copy of this book from Thomas Nelson in exchange for an honest opinion of the product.

Mercy Come Morning

Krista Mueller left her home in New Mexico years ago leaving behind a past love, Dane, and a mother who seemed to care little about her.  She has a successful life as a college history professor in Colorado which she loves.  However, when Krista's mother, who has suffered from Alzheimer's for over ten years nears the end of her life, she is called home for her final days.  Here, Krista begins to discover who her mother really was through notes written in a book of Christmas carols used as a journal and letters hidden in storage.  Krista also discovers that her feelings for Dane may not be as deeply buried as she once believed.  Having felt neglected and unacceptable all these years, can Krista open her heart to her mother as well as accept the friendship Dane offers?

Mercy Come Morning by Lisa Tawn Bergren is a story of healing and second chances.  The present day story is interspersed with flashbacks of days in Krista's childhood, some with her loving grandparents and some with memories of her mother.  Although a quick read, I do feel that anyone who is dealing with or has dealt with a loved one suffering from Alzheimer's or other forms of dementia would enjoy this book.  I could almost picture my own grandmother who suffered from the disease in Charlotte.  The characters are well developed for the length and believable.  The picture Ms. Bergman paints of Taos, New Mexico almost makes you feel as if you are visiting there yourself.

This book was received from Waterbrook Multnomah as a preview copy in exchange for my honest opinion about the book. 

Monday, August 8, 2011

The Harvest of Grace

Sylvia Fisher undoubtedly loves Elam.  But unlike most Amish women, she has her own ideas regarding what brings her happiness and she is uncertain that she can fit into the mold of being an Old Order Amish housewife.  When Elam proposes, Sylvia hesitates a bit too long which leads to a terrible betrayal by him as well as by her closest sister, Beckie. That betrayal doesn't change the love and attraction she feels towards Elam.  Hurt beyond words, Sylvia leaves her home and family to help another Amish family on their dairy farm.  The farm owners., the Blands, are still grieving over the recent death of their daughter and are at the brink of losing their land.

Sylvia has helped the Blands heal emotionally and the farm is on the road to making a profit which will help pay off some of the loans.  The Blands do have one surviving child, Aaron, who left home to get help with his alcohol addiction.   When Aaron returns home, he comes with the news that he has made a downpayment on an Amish appliance store and wishes his parents to sell their failing farm and move with him in order to have an easier life.  Can his father ever trust him again since he left without a word and his parents knew nothing of his addiction before he left?  Will Sylvia stand in the way of his plans to sell the farm?  Will either of them ever find the peace and forgiveness they long for?

The Harvest of Grace by Cindy Woodsmall is the third in the Ada's House series, preceded by The Hope of Refuge and The Bridge of Peace.  Although The Harvest of Grace begins the story of Sylvia and Aaron, the stories of the main characters from the two preceding novels are continued in this novel.  As a reader new to this series, I was thankful that Ms. Woodsmall had written a brief synopsis of the two prior novels at the beginning of this installment and a glossary of characters at the end.  Without those, I would have found it impossible to keep all the characters straight since there are multiple stories being told throughout the novel with all the charcters being intertwined through friendship. 

I did enjoy this Amish fiction series but I do recommend reading them in order.  Having read the third one first, I won't go back to read the other two because I already know the "rest of the story".   As usual, Ms. Woodsmall does an excellent job of developing believable multi-faceted characters.  The Harvest of Grace will be available on August 9, 2011 from your local christian bookstore, christianbooks.com (on August 23),  and amazon.com.

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Don't Check Your Brains At the Door

Do you ever wonder why you believe what you believe?  Is it because your parents believed it?  Your Sunday School teacher taught it to you?  Your pastor told you it was true?  If you can answer "yes" to any of those questions, this book might be what you're looking for.  Josh McDowell, internationally known speaker and author of more than 130 books and Bob Hostetler, author and pastor, discuss 42 common myths pertaining to God, Jesus, the Bible, the resurrection, religion and Christianity,and life and happiness.  Along with each myth, McDowell and Hostetler convey a real life example and then lead the reader to discover what the Bible has to say about the myth.  At the close of each "chapter", a section entitled "Brain Food" is included which encourages the reader to dig into the Bible with short scripture texts and answer a question or two about what you have read.  Each chapter is short, easy to read, and could very well be used as a devotion with older children and young teens.

When I ordered Don't Check Your Brains At The Door, I was anticipating a book similar to what this is but I did expect the book to address some of the more difficult and challenging questions I might get from my 16 and 18 year old.  Way too many of my beliefs stem from what my parents taught me and now those are the types of questions my children are asking such as "Why does skin color or differences in faith or denomination matter when you choose your spouse?" or "Why should I dress up to go to church?  Does God care what I wear?".  Did I expect too much from one book?  Perhaps.  McDowell and Hostetler do address some very prevalent world opinions but I do feel that this book is best suited for children from the ages of 10 to 16, younger children if done alongside an adult.  After reading, your child will have a better understanding of why they believe as they do and be able to defend his/her beliefs.

Thursday, July 7, 2011

A Place Called Blessing

The last book I read before this was The Blessing  by John Trent.  We all, whether adult or child, want to know we are treasured by someone. The Blessing illustrated how to accomplish that through five different venues:  meaningful touch, a spoken message, attaching high value to the individual, dreaming with and believing in him or her about a very special future God has for him/her, and a commitment to bestowing the blessing.  Using Biblical truths and stories of Jesus' life on earth, Trent paints us a vivid picture of the changed lives that are a result of such a blessing.

Not necessarily listed as a sequel, A Place Called Blessing by John Trent and Annnette Smith tells the story of  an orphan named Josh, who grew up in the foster care program and a children's home, separated from his two brothers for most of his life.  Josh never felt the unconditional love we all long for and lived with the guilt of a horrible accident he was responsible for at the age of six.  Because of the accident, he was deemed unadoptable.  His childhood experiences left him feeling worthless, flawed, and without the ability to trust anyone.  When Josh is released from the state system at age 18, he is determined to find a job but doesn't find that an easy task and is forced to sleep wherever he can find a dry place and living off very little food to eat.  However, in his search for a job, he meets Anna and Mike who show him the love he thought couldn't exist.  Anna and Mike display the traits Trent explains in The Blessing, giving the reader concrete examples of how to apply the principles to your own life.  A Place Called Blessing also includes questions for thought and discussion, several questions on each chapter and a special message from Mr. Trent.  Trent seems to have had a similar experience as Josh growing up.

I started this book at bedtime and I couldn't put it down.   Rarely do I read a book in one day but this is one that grabbed my attention.  I couldn't wait to see if Josh would allow Anna, Mike, and God to change his life.  While the story is somewhat predictable, I was taken quite by surprise toward the end.  Whether for pleasure, as a book club book, or as a follow-up to The Blessing, I would highly recommend this book which is available on Amazon.com, christianbook.com, or your local Christian bookstore.

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Giving the blessing of unconditional love and acceptance

As Jacob was blessed by Abraham, so we all yearn to receive the blessing of our parents.  It is also natural for us to want to "pass on to our children more than we received.  This book can put into words what you missed as a child as well as provide practical, hands-on ways of communicating unconditional love and acceptance to your children and loved ones." (p. 5)  Please don't get me wrong.  I had a wonderful childhood and felt the love of my parents.  However, part of human nature is doubting our true worth and competing with siblings, if there are any.  If possible, I want to eradicate any possibility of my children's doubts they they are loved and truly treasured by their parents, regardless of what choices they make in life.  The world tells us otherwise.  This book equipped me with five specific tools to counteract what the world is telling my children.  If I have made the book seem as if it is only written for parents to use with their children, I need to clarify.  While that is the focus of the writing, these principles enrich and bring healing in  all intimate relationships such as friendships, parents, or your spouse.  We all, whether adult or child, want to know we are treasured by someone. The Blessing will tell you how to accomplish that through five different venues:  meaningful touch, a spoken message, attaching high value to the individual, dreaming with and believing in him or her about a very special future God has for him/her, and a commitment to bestowing the blessing.  Using Biblical truths and stories of Jesus' life on earth, Trent paints us a vivid picture of the changed lives that are a result of such a blessing.

Why should we bless our children and others?  As Mr.Trent explains, it allows them to develop intimate relationships when they are older and it "lays the foundation" for a genuine and fulfilling relationship with God that can survive the rocky teen years".  We need others, but especially our children, to feel that unconditional acceptance with us, as parents, rather than seeking "counterfeit blessings" in the world through money, drugs, poor choices in friends, cults, or even success.  If you missed that blessing in your life from parents or grandparents of other significant adults, the book also contains helpful information in overcoming that hurt and not allowing it to define who you are or passing the same lack of blessing on to your own family.

How I wish space allowed me to explain deeper each of the five components of the blessing.  This book is a must read for all parents but I highly recommend it to anyone who works with children be they Sunday school teachers or public school teachers or counselors.   I also feel this book would be helpful to those who may have had a rocky childhood and may find it difficult to be loved or to love unconditionally.

The Blessing by John Trent and Gary Smalley is a reprint.  It has been updated  by Trent with ideas and questions that pause you to think about how to apply what you have read as well as rich Internet resources.  The Blessing is available on amazon.com, christianbook.com or your local Christian bookstore.

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Do you want to be happy? Enemies of the Heart: dealing with greed, anger, guilt, and jealousy even if you choose to refuse it exists

How many times has something slipped out of your mouth that you couldn't believe you said or did something that was totally "uncharacteristic" of you?  For me, it is far too often.  I may have thought it, but did it need to be said?  Luke 6:45 says that ........for his mouth speaks from that which fills the heart.  So, is my mouth the problem or is my heart the problem?  I think you can see from the scripture that it is my heart.  Was I born this way?  No.  I could pretend that everything is okay, as most of us do, but eventually the "real" me (who I am inside) will surface.  Every thought, deed, and word that comes from me originates in the heart.  Doesn't that mean that I should take the time to  make certain my heart is as it should be?  Originally published in 2006 as It Came From Within, Enemies of the Heart  by Andy Stanley caused me to examine my heart to determine its health (not in the physical sense but in the spiritual sense).

Things may have happened to us in the past that may give us every right to be anger, jealous.....But do you want to stay that way?  How long are we/you going to allow those events to have power over you and control who you are?   Even if you don't see any of these four enemies of the heart glaring in your life, this book will allow you to see bits and pieces of them in yourself, making your heart less than what God would have it to be.  If you have a weak physical heart, you immediately see a doctor to see what needs to be done.  Allow Andy to be the "doctor" of your spiritual heart and he will point you to the path of healing, whether you need an "immediate transplant" or just a bit of exercise. 

However, once you see those bits of "poison" in your own life, there is hope.  Andy doesn't leave you there.  Change won't happen overnight.  It took you/me years to get where we are.   The last two thirds of the book is devoted to confronting those undesirable traits and overcoming their power in your life.
Andy writes just like he preaches:  straight up, to the point, encouraging, confronting in love, in everday language.  Even though I have listened to a number of his sermons both in person and via the Internet, this is the first of his books I have read.  It won't be the last.  Andy doesn't dance around the Truth and his illustrations are pointed and personal.  He is able to grab the reader's attention and keep it from the beginning paragraph to the end of the book.  I"m typically not a non-fiction reader but I very much enjoyed reading this book.  Did it sting a bit?  Of course!  But who wants to become stagnant and not grow in their faith and become all God wants you to be?  Any change and growth is uncomfortable a bit but definitely worth it.

Enemies of the Heart is availabe June 21, 2011 from Amazon.com, christianbook.com and your local Christian bookstore.